I’ve Been There Too

In 2013 at 21 years old I found out I was pregnant, I was so excited! I DREAMED of being a mom! I found out she was a girl and I couldn't wait to snuggle a tiny version of me! 2014 I welcomed my girl and felt like all my prayers were answered! I dreamt of all the beautiful nursing sessions we'd have and how bonded we'd be because we were sharing something so special. My reality was nothing like I imagined! Breastfeeding was HARD, my baby was tiny because she was born early and I was engorged ALL THE TIME! I was leaky and sore and exhausted. I had no idea where to go and who to turn to. I spent hours googling and crying at night just hoping to find something that would work for me. I wanted to have a successful breastfeeding journey more than anything! Although I never gave up, I struggled in silence and it made motherhood feel so lonely and hard. Fast forward to 2021, we had our third daughter and once again I couldn't wait to breastfeed. I knew in my heart things would be easier this time. They weren't. Poor latch, tongue tie, oversupply.. I felt defeated! I finally decided to reach out for help and got into a lactation consultant and I'm so grateful I did! She assessed a feed, saw our poor latch, diagnosed my daughters tongue tie, noticed my oversupply and helped us create a plan to help with everything. Having someone on my side, there for me made such a big difference. I had somewhere to turn when I ran in to trouble. I had a number to call if I had any question at all and I no longer felt so lonely. From that moment I knew I wanted to be that person for someone. I wanted to be who moms could come to with any questions or fears regarding breastfeeding.

xoxo, Chelyn McCain, CLC